Goals for me,
I want to love you with out clutching;
Appreciate you without judging;
Join you without invading;
Invite you with out demanding;
Leave you without guilt;
Criticize you without blaming;And
Help you without insulting.
If I can have the same from you, then we can truly met and enrich each other.(Virginia Satir)

我想愛你而不是抓住你;欣賞你而不批判你;和你一起參與而不是霸佔你;邀請你而不必強求你;離開你不須歉疚;批評你而不是責備你;並且幫助你而不冒犯你。如果可以這樣相處，我們必定可以坦誠的豐富彼此的人生。(沙維雅語錄)