2003年05月19日
我終於了解- 你無法強迫別人愛你。
你所能做的,是使自己成為可愛的人。
此外,則不是你所能決定的。
I've learned - that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
我終於了解- 不論我如何付出關懷,有些人就是無動於衷。
I've learned - that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
我終於了解- 建立起信任,需費時多年,但只需幾秒就能摧毀它。
I've learned - that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
我終於了解-重要的不是你一生中擁有了什麼東西,而是你一生中擁有了什麼人。
I've learned - that it's not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.
我終於了解-你可以藉由魅力達到目的,但只能維持15分鐘。此後,你最好要有些真材實料。
I've learned - that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something.
我終於了解-你不應該拿自己和別人的最佳表現相比,而應該和自己的最佳表現相比。
I've learned - that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do but to the best you can do.
我終於了解-重要的不是發生在人們身上的事,而是他們對那事的反應。
I've learned - that it's not what happens to people, that's important. It's what they do about it.
我終於了解-你在瞬間所做的事,可以叫你心痛一輩子。
I've learned - that you can do something in an instant, that will give you heartache for life.
我終於了解-不論你切得多薄,事情總是具有兩面。
I've learned - that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
我終於了解-需要經歷很長的時日,才能使我成為我所欲成為的人。
I've learned - that it's taking me a long time, to become the person I want to be.
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